Healthy Habits in the Bedroom
A few months ago the very talented Robin Hoffman approached me with an idea for her show. She said something like “I want to interview a panel of WOMEN WHO ENJOY SEX.” I jumped on board immediately not knowing what to expect or what exactly that meant.
We did it. We created a video where a diverse group of women discussed our bedroom habits.
However, the real magic and depth of this experience occurred behind the scenes. Prior to filming, we all met at Robin’s house to get to know each other and brainstorm.
At one point, I asked the panel members to tell the story of their first Orgasm.
They did. The stories were all different, some funny, silly, sexy, and embarrassing. Each woman had a story of her own and each one was unique, memorable, and transformational. The method through which each woman found her orgasm was as varied as the individual women were.
We were a group of women sitting discussing our pleasure! This may seem like a small thing. But it’s a huge thing. We don’t talk about our pleasure like this often. When was the last time you sat in a group of women and discussed the quality of your orgasm??
When was the last time you sat down with your lover and discussed your orgasm, communicated your pleasure or desires?
Communicating pleasure is essential to creating an embodied experience of feminine sexual empowerment.